I have asked this before to couples when they are having a hard time deciding on what to do, when planning their wedding… What Matters To You? What is your style? What do you and your fiance’ love about each other?
Do you like walks in a park? Do you like the great outdoors? Or do you like to stay in and watch a movie? Would you rather stay up late or get up early?
What is it that makes you attracted to each other? These are questions that sometimes help a couple decide on what kind of wedding they want.
A big party atmosphere or a slow romantic wedding/reception. Maybe a little of both. Romance isn’t necessarily boring and party atmosphere doesn’t have to exclude romance. However, think about how you want to incorporate each into your big day.
Find your colors, find your dj or band, find a wedding coordinator, find a caterer, find a florist and tell them. Tell them your passions, tell them your wishes and see what transpires from those conversations. You dictate to them your desires. Don’t let them dictate to you what they want. Then and only then will you get the perfect day for you and your fiance’.